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reclaiming what it means to be a sexual Black woman.
Q: Personally I find it hard to think about me being sexual and a black woman because there are sooo many bad stereotypes that I don’t know how to get past, like in porn it’s much easier for me to watch porn with white people than black people because I think of what the world thinks of us. It’s hard because we are all seen as ghetto as black people so when I hear other black people talk like that I get turned off sometimes. I just don’t want it to be a black thing if that makes sense at all.
sex gets better with age
Q: I’ve been single for three years since my marriage of 17 years ended in divorce. I have been hesitant to date and having sex brings up a lot of emotions, mostly anxious…
sex, relationships, and chronic pain
Q: I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis two years ago, right when I was starting to get deeper into learning about reclaiming my sexuality and pleasure….
can exes be friends?
Q: Sometimes it genuinely feels like we’re just really good friends. Other times it feels really messy like we’re falling into old habits and a relationship again…
don't kiss me after you give me head!
Q: Is there a polite way to tell a partner during sex that you don’t want to be kissed immediately after they finish giving you oral?
my husband's sex drive is lower than mine!
Q: As a married woman, age almost 35, with an active sex drive and a husband of the same age with not as much drive...
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