a brief guide to sexting
Sexting is the art of sending sexually explicit digital images, videos, text messages, or emails usually by a cell phone. Sexting is a creative and erotic way to play with others. But, sexting can be intimidating if you’re unsure of what to say. In this guide, we’ve provided some sexting strategies that will hopefully lead you and your lover to explore new pathways to pleasure.
no sext without consent
You never want to share images, videos, or explicit messages with folks without their consent.
how to ask to sext
Not sure how to bring up the conversation about sexting? Here are some suggestions.
Hey, have you sexted before? Do you want to try it with me?
Can I share a sexy video of myself masturbating with you?
Can I tell you what I want you to do to me the next time we’re together?
sexting strategies
Once you have their consent & you are ready to sext, here are some strategies to keep your sexting sexy.
Teach them how to pleasure you the way you want to be pleased: I want you to ___ to my ___ until I ___.
Retell them one of your favorite sexual encounters together: I can’t stop thinking about that one time we…
Explore your fantasies: I just had a sexy dream about you. Do you want to hear it?
Give compliments: I love the way your back arches when I’m touching you.
Ask questions: Where do you want me to touch you first?
Describe what you’re feeling and doing: I’m getting wet just thinking about you.
Tell them exactly what you want: I want to watch you touch yourself.
Use gifts, memes, & emojis:
Send a voice memo of you orgasming.
things to consider
Your erotic mind does not have to be politically correct.
Sexting may seem silly at first & that’s ok.
It gets easier with practice.
Be clear about who they can & cannot share your messages, videos, and pics with.
For videos & images, try angles that don’t show your face.
Do what makes you feel comfortable.
Be detailed, descriptive, go slow, & have fun!
What’s your experience been with sexting? What other sexting strategies have you used?