what do you need after sex?

One of my favorite practices I learned from the kink community is aftercare. Aftercare are the things you do after sex or a BDSM scene to make sure that everyone is ok and feels taken care of. This can look like a number of things so aftercare is something that people talk about and negotiate before any sex or scene begins.

This is a practice that is helpful whether you’re engaging in kinky sex or not. Think about how many times you’ve had sex with someone and they orgasm, roll over, and start scrolling on their phone? Or they get up immediately after and take an uber home. If you’re not on the same page, some of these acts can leave you feeling pretty shitty after a sexual encounter.

We’ve created a list of some aftercare practices you can talk to your partner(s) about. We also left a blank spot, so let us know what do you like to do after solo or partnered sex!